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					<description><![CDATA[失败后不敢再尝试很正常，很多时候不是你变弱了，而是还没从那次挫败里缓过来。把尝试降级、先稳住生活节奏，再一点点恢复行动力，会更省心也更不容易崩。]]></description>
		
		
		
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