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					<description><![CDATA[当一段关系长期没有可验证的进展、你不断自我说服并消耗生活质量时，就该承认对方不适合你。止损不是认输，而是把尊严和主动权收回来。]]></description>
		
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[“感觉不错但不对”的关系，往往让你持续投入却没有可验证的进展。学会用事实判断可推进性，设定观察窗口，才能少内耗、少做错误投入并保留尊严。]]></description>
		
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[关系长期没有实质进展时，别靠猜和熬。用事实看投入与行动，设定观察窗口；若持续模糊和不对等，就体面退出，保住尊严与主动权。]]></description>
		
		
		
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