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					<description><![CDATA[应酬里领导很少明说满意不满意，但会通过当场的动作、散场的交代和后续是否继续带你，给出非常明确的信号。]]></description>
		
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[饭局上被安排坐重要位置，往往不是单纯抬举，而是对你角色的安排与试探。搞清楚位置背后的用意，少越位、少承诺、别泄露信息，场面就能稳稳过去。]]></description>
		
		
		
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