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					<description><![CDATA[关系长期没进展，关键不在“再等等”，而在看投入是否对等、边界是否清晰，以及你是否因此变得更消耗。给自己设验证期限，能推进就继续，推不动就体面退出。]]></description>
		
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[她愿意亲近但回避未来很常见，关键不在于她“正不正常”，而在于你要的关系是否能从她那里得到。用行动和投入来判断，给自己期限，别把希望当成进展。]]></description>
		
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[关系长期不上不下，最伤的不是没结果，而是你在不确定里持续消耗。学会用时间边界和行为边界设止损点，体面抽离，把主动权拿回来。]]></description>
		
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[她不愿确定关系时，别靠猜和熬。看投入是否对等、边界是否清晰、时间是否有进展，再决定继续还是体面离开。]]></description>
		
		
		
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