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					<description><![CDATA[暧昧期减少主动不是冷处理，而是减少情绪投入、保留清晰推进，用事实信号判断是否双向。能配合就继续，长期含糊就及时止损。]]></description>
		
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[聊天很勤但情绪很平，可能是稳定，也可能是把你放在陪聊的位置。关键看能不能约出来、能不能落地推进，以及你是否在高投入低回报里被消耗。]]></description>
		
		
		
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